February 16, 2013

  • The Dark Man In The Night

    I remember it was snowing.  I remember that I was 12 that winter.  And, I remember the Dark Man.

    It was the early 60′s.  It was just after supper and I was on my way home from getting a loaf of bread from our local A&P.  Winter nights came early, so it was dark as I took my time walking down the main street.  I loved walking in the snow and watched the small flakes drift by the streetlights.  Our local bank, just blocks from our house, stood alone on the corner, surrounded by trees and bushes.  As I passed the front entrance of the bank, I heard a man’s voice say “Hello.”

    He stood in the shadow of a large oak tree, leaning against the trunk.  His hair was as black as the long coat he wore.  A dark scarf was wrapped loosely around his neck; his hands were covered in gloves.  His eyes were like coal and he had white, pasty looking skin.  He looked older than my brother; younger than my dad.  At first, I thought he might be the man who lived across the street from us, but as he stood up straight and started to walk towards me, I realized he was a stranger.

    As I watched him approach me, I suddenly sensed something was not right.  I remember thinking that I should run, but I felt frozen in place and could only watch as he walked to the sidewalk I stood on.

    “Where are you going?” he asked in a soft voice.  I couldn’t answer, my throat felt tight and I just stared back at him, unable to move. He reached into one of his pockets and pulled something out. As he came closer, he held out his hand and I saw small red candies nestled in the palm of his glove, tempting me to reach for one and bring me closer to him.  Suddenly he stopped.  I watched his head turn in the direction of the corner of the street. I turned to see what he was looking at.

    Two nuns were crossing the road and heading our way.  They wore long, black habits and their stark white cornettes resembled two large doves spreading their wings to fly.  They were coming from the direction of St. Ann’s Church and heading towards the store I had left just a short time ago.  The younger nun smiled at me and both of them bowed their heads slightly in greeting.  As they passed, I found I could once again move.  I turned around and walked behind them, leaving the Dark Man behind.

    As the nuns continued their conversation, I kept waiting for a heavy hand to land on my shoulder, taking me away from the safety of the nuns.  After walking a short distance, I looked back at the place where I had left the Dark Man.  I saw him standing where I had been just a few moments ago, with his shoulders slumped, his hands stuck back in his pockets and a frown on his face.  He took one gloved hand out of his pocket and waved to me; beckoning me back.

    I turned around and followed the sisters all the way back to the A&P.  I watched out the window of the store until I was sure that there was no one lurking nearby. I took a different route home, a route that I would take to the store for the rest of the winter, a route that would not require me to walk past the bank in the dark.  I didn’t mention the Dark Man to my parents.  I was afraid they would think I was making up a story or laugh at me for being scared of a man who just wanted to say hello.

    I never forgot the Dark Man; he haunted my nightmares for months; he snuck into my thoughts for years and today, when I hear of a missing child, I remember how lucky I had been to escape the Dark Man in the night.

    This is a true story.  I’ve never told anyone; always fearing that no one would believe me.  But, it did happen and the memory does haunt me.  I’m hoping that, by finally writing about this night, the Dark Man will no longer chase me in my dreams.

    Have you ever had a close call that haunts you to this day? 

Comments (16)

  • I was that close to be lure away by an old man who claims he was my grandparent`s friend. He tried to give me some sweets and also to one of my cousin who was playing on my side. We both were six at that time. But one of my auntie saw this as she was on the upper hill of the paddy plantation and she saw a stranger speaking to the kids and it frightens her a bit. She called out loud to us which alerted that old man and moved away quickly.

    Later, we heard of the same case of that same old man who tried to rape a woman who was just walking home to the village with her seven year old son. Seeing that his mother was attacked by that man, the child was screaming for help and the man got hold of the boy and hit him several times. The boy died trying to save his mother`s life. What a tragedy.

    Me and my cousin was that close to such tragedy. It seems that we both got a good guardian angels though … Until today, that memory stuck to my mind about that woman who was so close being … and her child died in attempt to save his mother`s life … It makes me sad for more over twenty-years of my life …

    You are so lucky on this one, dear. You have too, indeed, a good guardian angel that guards you. Amen!

    And to think of this moment, it reminds me on the rape news in India on that young woman. It hurts and it disgust me. Just now, watching the news I saw the new rape victim too, was just a six year old. The other young woman did not survive this … she died at the hospital … I can speak of this no more … Such a horror …

  • Wow, thank goodness for passing nuns. I have always been very wary of strangers, even as a kid. If I ever had any close calls I was unaware.

  • I do hope the dark man is now banished from your dreams.

  • What a tragic story and ours would have probably been just as tragic if not for our guardian angels. And, the world mourns for that young girl in India.  So much danger in the world!@SherryAngeLMysteriez - 

  • I don’t think I knew the true danger I was in until I was old enough to learn of things like rape, murder and pedophiles.  I just knew at the time that I sensed danger.@leaflesstree - 

  • No, he still stalks me, but not as often as he used to.  But, he was in my sleep last night, which drove me to finally write about him.  Let’s hope he goes away!@slmret - 

  • Surely God sent those  nuns to protect you.  I don’t remember having any close calls, thank goodness.

  • I was by myself at a park once when I was a younger teenager in high school, and this random, sketchy guy took a sudden interest in me. he followed me and came to talk to me, tried flirting with me, and tried getting me to go to the baseball dugouts with him, which offered privacy from the public, where he would’ve presumably tried to get intimate with me, but I knew better. it really freaked me out at the time, but it never bothered me too much after. I was still a little naive back then, but I knew the dangers of getting involved with strangers. it was in broad daylight and there were other people in the park, but he probably could’ve gotten away with it if I had cooperated like he liked. it makes me more weary now when I’m out and about alone, knowing the reality of what could’ve happened that day. thanks for sharing your story. I hope you realize nobody’s questioning you. I think you should’ve told your parents, but I know things were different then, and as you said, they may not have believed you. I hope you’ll finally be able to sleep better finally knowing you’ve gotten this memory out into the open. He can’t hurt you anymore :)

  • @Love_in_102 - You are such a very smart girl not to follow that guy. But how many girls out there also can be so silly following a guy whom they do not know and easily got caught in the mid of his flirty charms – it disgust me even to think of it even … And like you said we should have spoken it out to our parents, but when we are young we are too afraid, too naive and totally ignorant of such. For this reason why I speak to my kids that if anything terrible happen, they should put a huge trust in me and their Dad that they talk to us. Some parents are silly and they neglected their kids emotionally and that way is some sort of abusing too, U know.

    It is good to know that you are safe back then.

  • @SherryAngeLMysteriez - well thank you, I really appreciate you saying such. it really is a shame how ignorant some girls still are to the dangers of the world in today’s society. I know so many girls who are lured into the party scene, and then are taken out with their friends to whoever’s place, are given alcohol, and then find themselves in bad situations which all could have been avoided if they had just thought things out a little bit better. my parents thankfully never sheltered me too much, and I think many years of Lifetime movies helped me see past the tricks and charm of many young men. the guy I ran into at the park happened to be significantly older than myself, which is probably why he thought I’d be an easy target, but I’ve also had bad run-ins with guys my own age. girls of all ages have to be really careful these days, and I’m glad you’re encouraging your children to be able to trust you and open up to you. I never told my parents about the incident in the park because I know they never would’ve allowed me back there. I have always been very independent and certainly didn’t want my parents to become paranoid about my safety, and nothing actually happened, so I never made a big deal about it. I hope your children learn the dangers early on and have the sense to think about certain situations before they find themselves smack dab in the middle of bad ones. trust your kids, don’t over-react when they want to open up to you about something possibly dangerous happening, and have faith in their decisions as they grow older and wiser. 

  • wow, i’m glad nothing happened to you. 

    people like that have an effect on children, it’s like a tractor beam of some sort and once a little kid gets caught, that’s it. but you were really courageous in walking away. i hope that man never harmed anyone!

  • Being a guy, I can’t imagine how scary that must be.

  • The nuns were sent by the PROVIDENCE (God); I understand you were disturbed and paralysed ;
    Love

    MICHEL

  • Definitely a creepy story. Thanks goodness you made it home safe! This story reminds me of one time, when I was coming home from high school. I was being followed by someone in a SUV or van, and it creeped me out big time. It was obvious they were following me, considering how slowly they were driving, and how close they were to me. They also had darkly tinted windows, so I couldn’t see who it was. I have a feeling it was some people from school messing with me. Thankfully, before I got home they drove off, so they didn’t get to see where I lived. That incident doesn’t haunt me all the time, but it definitely was scary.

  • Wow, that’s a very scary story.  I believe every word of it.  My daughter had a similar experience when she was young and was playing in the yard.  Two guys in a pickup stopped to “get directions.” (Are you kidding me? From a child?) I was in the house and

    thank God

    , she knew to run inside.  She was young…probably around 6 or so.  (She’s 26 now) She just told me about that happening recently.  I almost fainted!!  I think it still haunts her too.

  • you were right to follow your gut instinct to follow those nuns.

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